3 Ways To Save Your Relationship

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I am so sorry that you are looking for ways to save your relationship. There is nothing more miserable than feeling down due to a broken heart. Together we are going to focus on the good in your union and learn a whole new way of thinking and living. Together we WILL save your relationship… I am proud of you and excited that you are willing to put some effort into a relationship that is important to you. Below are three ways to introduce positive thinking into your life… you will succeed! Now let’s get to work…

1. I know when my relationship had hit rock bottom I insisted on surrounding myself with others who were dejected and disheartened as well…. I found some type of comfort in being with gloomy people. Just the thought of being around a happy, cheery person made my stomach sick.  I do NOT want that for you! I want you to find comfort in people who WERE down and have found their way back to their peak. Please know that you may feel defeated right now but you will rise again! As difficult as it may seem, surround yourself with optimistic and upbeat friends and family… even strangers.  It may feel good to hang out with people who are down in the dumps like you but it is only a temporary fix and will hurt you in the long run.  Do not allow negative people to give you advice… negativity breeds negativity. Find positive people to advise you. Encourage positive people to bring you up. Do not sink to any low levels… you are a winner and winners finish at the top. 

2.  Do not bog yourself down with negative thinking about your relationship. I KNOW that it is easier to think pessimistically when you are feeling sad but it will not benefit you in any way. Do not even entertain one negative thought… period! Even the tiniest unconstructive thought can take root in your brain and cause your emotions to go haywire! You control your emotions… they do not control you. Your relationship can get better… it will get better.  Do productive things that will improve your union… communicate with your partner every single day. Do nice things for your mate. You can do something big… plan a weekend trip or something small… put your mates’ towel in the dryer while they are in the shower so that it is toasty warm when they get out. Thoughtfulness is so sexy.  Every single time a negative thought pops into your head think of something thoughtful that you can do for your mate instead.

3. It is imperative that you think only positive things when you think about or view yourself. Do you know that you were created to look EXACTLY the way you do right now? It is not an accident that you have that hair, those thighs, that nose, those boobs or that belly. Be proud of your imperfections! Flaws are awesome! They make you…you.  Why would you want to look like anyone else? Do not let someone else’s beauty standard tell you how you should look. You were designed to be the person whom you are today. Be proud of yourself! There is no one in the world who is just like you… you are special… you are unique… you are absolutely amazing! Do not compare yourself with anyone else. Who cares what your neighbor looks like?!?!… they are not YOU. There is nothing sexier than confidence. Having confidence in yourself will improve your relationship beyond words. Your partner is so blessed to have you… do not ever forget that. Stand tall… speak assertively… you are perfect just the way you are! 


Please remember that in any relationship it is important to give respect and demand it back. Be nice. Be loving and loveable. Expect good things. Do not accept anything but the best for yourself or your partner.  You deserve a strong, healthy relationship. Remember that you are no one’s door mat! Do not allow anyone to cheat on you or put their hands on you… you are too good for that. Please do not cheat on your mate. If you are thinking about it… STOP! It is selfish and unfair. Put the time and effort that would go into an affair into your current relationship. Fall in love all over again with your spouse. You can have the relationship of your dreams…believe it!

Source: http://www.infoboundblog.com/2016/12/...onship.html